Earlier this month, my friend - composer Sam Stryke - sent out a call to some of his friends asking for pictures of 'dads with their children.' He explained he was working on a new composition that would be a tribute to fathers. I immediately thought of this image as one I wanted to send ...
This was an easy pick for me, because it is probably my favorite image I've ever been a part of - as a parent. This picture was taken by Kristen in 2003 during a visit to California to see Addison and Amy, and it was the first time Miles took a look at the ocean. He was about 18 months old.
For me this image represents what is undeniably one of the most wonderful things about being a parent, and that is having the blessing of seeing the world through the eyes of your child. Discovery is a big part of that. And in the case of a very young child, many of those moments are filled with the awe and wonder of nature. The discovery has been changing very gradually over time. (Right now, as I sit at the computer and write this, Miles is in the living room discovering how to play the E minor scale on a recorder), and I can only imagine what the future holds. No matter how big or small the discovery - I feel very fortunate to be a part of this process with Miles and Emery.
Back to Sam Stryke. He wrote a beautiful piece of music ('By My Side') and has set it to images in a short media presentation he calls 'For The Dads.' You might recognize Miles and me ...
Thanks, Sam, for sharing your composition with us, and for allowing some of us 'dads' to be a part of helping you create it.
And a very happy Father's Day to my own father, my father-in-law, and to my brother. All of whom - I hope - are enjoying a great day today.
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Brayer's Christmas Clean-Up Song ...
Sung to the melody of "The Twelve Days of Christmas" ....
12 Rubbermaid containers, 11 trips to the attic, 10 levels of fake tree dismantled, 9 pieces of train derailed, 8 recycling bins filled, 7 minute break to play Foosball with the kids, 6 hours of clean-up, 5 arguments broken up, 4 times I almost wished I was back at work, 3-hundred tiny lights wrapped up, 2 semi-helpful elves, 1 temporarily crippled (yet willing to supervise) spouse...and Christmas 2009 is in the books!
12 Rubbermaid containers, 11 trips to the attic, 10 levels of fake tree dismantled, 9 pieces of train derailed, 8 recycling bins filled, 7 minute break to play Foosball with the kids, 6 hours of clean-up, 5 arguments broken up, 4 times I almost wished I was back at work, 3-hundred tiny lights wrapped up, 2 semi-helpful elves, 1 temporarily crippled (yet willing to supervise) spouse...and Christmas 2009 is in the books!
Friday, December 25, 2009
Spirit of Christmas
We are feeling truly blessed by the spirit of Christmas.
Last night we enjoyed some traditional "Christmas Eve" activities, including dressing for church (no small task for hop-along Kristen), Miles singing in the Children's Choir, Emery helping open the
"present" during the children's service (the baby Jesus), baking cookies for Santa, spreading Emery's "magic reindeer dust" on the snow outside our house, and finally reading The Night Before Christmas.
Maybe the most exciting part of that ritual was Miles announcing that he wanted to read the book ... and he did! That was a fun parenting moment, to have your child read that story to the family for the first time.
We set the children up with a phone next to Miles' bed, with specific instructions to call Kristen and me when they woke up and were ready to come downstairs. We encouraged 7:00 AM, and added, "... but NO EARLIER than 6:30 AM." At exactly 6:30, my cell phone rang next to my bed with excited voices proclaiming they KNEW Santa had been at our house. Miles reported hearing the sleigh land on our roof at exactly 2:07 AM.
Our family has been showered and spoiled by family and friends with wonderful gifts to remind us of the love we share. Thank you to everyone for making this a special day. We look forward to phone conversations, iChats, and personal catch-ups in the near future to reinforce how grateful we truly are.
Love,
Brayer
More images here: http://bit.ly/4t22KB
Last night we enjoyed some traditional "Christmas Eve" activities, including dressing for church (no small task for hop-along Kristen), Miles singing in the Children's Choir, Emery helping open the
"present" during the children's service (the baby Jesus), baking cookies for Santa, spreading Emery's "magic reindeer dust" on the snow outside our house, and finally reading The Night Before Christmas.
Maybe the most exciting part of that ritual was Miles announcing that he wanted to read the book ... and he did! That was a fun parenting moment, to have your child read that story to the family for the first time.
We set the children up with a phone next to Miles' bed, with specific instructions to call Kristen and me when they woke up and were ready to come downstairs. We encouraged 7:00 AM, and added, "... but NO EARLIER than 6:30 AM." At exactly 6:30, my cell phone rang next to my bed with excited voices proclaiming they KNEW Santa had been at our house. Miles reported hearing the sleigh land on our roof at exactly 2:07 AM.
Our family has been showered and spoiled by family and friends with wonderful gifts to remind us of the love we share. Thank you to everyone for making this a special day. We look forward to phone conversations, iChats, and personal catch-ups in the near future to reinforce how grateful we truly are.
Love,
Brayer
More images here: http://bit.ly/4t22KB
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Friday, December 18, 2009
Tuesday, December 08, 2009
Santa Wants A Tuba For Christmas
Miles and Emery participated - as actors - in their very first Mosaic Concert at DGN tonight. They were wonderful Elves! Video coming later ...
Friday, November 27, 2009
Thanksgiving Recap
Yesterday I posted some pictures from the parade in Chicago. Here's one more parade picture, and the back-story:
Before the parade, a couple of students asked me if I would take a picture of the "Cookie Monster" because they didn't have a camera with them. Jokingly, I told them that they could just do a "Google Image Search" when they got home, and they would find thousands of pictures of the Cookie Monster. (They didn't really think this was funny or a good idea.) Truthfully, I planned to take the picture for them, but got distracted by a slightly more pressing issue, and forgot. DGN was the very first marching band in the parade, and we finished
long before many groups had started up State Street. As our buses were leaving for Downers Grove, and stopped at a light waiting to cross the parade route at the next break, I snapped this picture. I
call it, "Cookie Monster Eats School Bus." I'll bet you can't find THIS one on Google (yet).
The best part about being the first band in the parade was that we were back out in DG by 10:30 AM. Kristen and the kids were home by 10:45, and I made it back from work by 11:30. We then started to get ready for our guests. We hosted 18 for dinner last night (including our family). The Williams family, the Owens family, Bill Seliger (my college fraternity brother and post-college roommate in Evanston years ago), and an Iraqi refuge family that we met through the Williams' church last Easter.

The Williams came over first, shortly after we got home, and we started the birds. We did one bird in the oven, and one on the grill. The family from Iraq arrived shortly after 1 PM (a little earlier than expected), brought a THIRD TURKEY (definitely a beautiful and unexpected gesture). I took this picture because I loved watching/listening to Kristen try to explain American football to a family that did not understand the rules.

Josiah and Miles teach Baleep how to play 'Connect Four'.
Kristen and Terri are joined by Wassen in the kitchen. Emery took it upon herself to teach the two Iraqi girls, and their father Talib, how to play 'Go Fish'. I was really proud of her for taking this initiative because we had talked earlier about how to make them feel welcome, and she seemed to embrace the role of hostess.
Glenn and Miles in a very serious game of 'Connect Four." I think Glenn won, but I'm not sure.
Emery, bless her heart, while trying ... didn't quite teach 'Go Fish' correctly ... so here Allison bats clean-up, and tries to re-teach the real rules to Talib.

Miles (black), defeating his father (red) in 'Connect Four.'

For weeks Miles has been very excited about playing football on Thanksgiving. Fortunately the rain let up in the afternoon, and he was able to coerce Will, Josiah, and Baleep to play in the front yard.

Emery, holding Girls Court in the backyard with Katharine.

Eventually Glenn and I joined the game, and we moved to the street to allow for longer passes.

Bill Seliger arrived with two beautiful homemade pies just before 4 PM, and just in time to be nominated by Rodney and Sheri to carve the three turkeys.

We moved the kitchen table to the living room, and opened it up, as well as the dining room table, with all of the extensions. Not enough room at the tables to 'pass the food', so we said thanks/grace in the kitchen, served food buffet style, and everyone picked their seats as they were ready to eat.


Emery and me after dinner. I'm wearing the Pilgrim hat she brought home from kindergarten this week.

Our newest friends from Iraq left around 6:30 PM, but others lingered for games. Here we are playing a team trivia game using the Wii.

Late night basketball. It was much colder than you would know looking at the two high-school aged young-men, who were too cool (literally) to wear coats.

I made this picture on the computer the night before Thanksgiving, but it definitely foreshadowed how we all felt at the end of the evening. Food coma.
The only other "picture" I'll share will have to be an imagined one. That being the pile of dog-vomit Penny Rose produced at the steps of the front door, just as the Owens and Williams were putting on their shoes and everyone was exchanging good-bye hugs. Penny, not wanting to be ignored, shared some of her Thanksgiving dinner with us - having ripped into a garbage bag with the Turkey carcass I had inadvertently left on the back patio. Oooops.
We have much to be thankful for, and at the top of the list is our family. Happy Thanksgiving to all our family ... especially those we could not be with yesterday due to miles that separate us.
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Thursday, November 26, 2009
Thanksgiving with the DGN Band
We are "Thankful" for the wonderful work ethic and musical performance exhibited by the members of the DGN Trojan Marching Band this morning. The band performed in the McDonalds Thanksgiving Day Parade for an audience estimated to be well over 200,000 spectators (and millions on television).
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